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Friday, 15 January 2016

Interesting Situation

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My Wife posted: 07/06/06 at 12:24 PM

boballen [more]

My wife and I got married 5 years ago and I met her while trying to learn self defense. She was one of the instructors. I am rather small 5'3" and weigh about 103 pounds. She is part Brazilian and was teaching karate as well as Brazilian Jiu Jitsui. My wife is 5'11" and weighs about 175 she is in very good shape. She said I was cute and everything was great and we started dating. After about 3 years into our marriage she stopped waxing her arms and legs and she has very hairy arms and legs (being Brazilian), much hairier than I am. Lately, she has been teasing me about this and saying that she is like the man in our relationship because she is bigger and hairier and better at self defense than me. I have accepted all my life that I am a small man and not very hairy , but her comments are affecting my self esteem. I told her this and she tells me that is what turns her on about me that she is bigger and calls me her wife and laughs. She teases me about how much hairier she is than me and says that I am just jealous because i don't grow alot of hair. How can I get this to stop?

posted: 07/06/06 at 12:55 PM

xt1 [more]

Kitty rubs against your leg for attention, if you want her to stop... deny the attention she'll seek it elsewhere. Do not let her comments affect you at all. Eventually she will see her comments are having no affect on you and there will be no reason for her to continue she'll become bored of doing it.

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xt1

posted: 07/06/06 at 1:12 PM

HellYaImNuts [more]

How can you get this to stop?
By not putting up with it.
You have to let her know that the jokes are not helping your self esteem.

And why would anyone be jealous of hair growth? I don't get it.

I think you need to talk to your Wife again.

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~Love is a cycle. When you love, you get hurt. When you get hurt, you hate.
When you hate, you try to forget.
When you try to forget, you start missing.
When you start missing, you eventually will fall in love again~

posted: 07/06/06 at 1:27 PM

pondman [more]

You married an amazon! What a stud!

posted: 07/06/06 at 2:11 PM

boballen [more]

I have she is a very beautiful woman, but she says in Brazil it is considered sexy. I feel being a man I should be hairier than her that is why and when we are in public people stare.

posted: 07/07/06 at 12:14 AM

sassylass38 [more]

Bob, you are what you are - the way the good Lord made you. Why fret over the fact that you're not hairier? That's silly, when you think about it - it's not something you can change. Do you know how many men are embarrassed to be so hairy? My brother inlay is Italian and very hairy - such that he has to get his back hair waxed otherwise he looks like the Sasquatch.

The measure of a man is NOT based on how hairy he is.

And you should remind your wife - you're not in Brazil. What's considered sexy there may not be the case elsewhere.

I don't care how beautiful she is, she sounds very mentally abusive , twisted and cruel - not to mention not too bright to make fun of you for things that are out of your control - that were there when she first met you and agreed to marry you (your size/lack of hair).

How sad that she finds it humorous to make fun of you like she's doing, and to say hurtful, insensitive things that make you feel like less of a man/husband. Can you reallly respect someone so mean?

Spouses should treat one another as their best friend - and be considerate of one another's feelings, and surely not act or speak in such a way that it makes their spouse feel bad about themself.

Yes, you could let your wife know that these things hurt your feelings, but this stuff is common sense and one shouldn't have to tell their spouse that it's hurtful.

I don't know what to tell you. I'm sure you love your wife a lot but I simply couldn't be married to someone who would be so cruel and sick.

posted: 07/07/06 at 12:22 AM

banarabbyt1 [more]

It sounds like she is teasing, but I'd tell her that it makes you unhappy and ask her to stop Again.

And when she starts teasing you like that, give her negative re-enforcement, ignore her or walk out, things like that, if she asks whats wrong tell her "how many times do I have to tell you I don't like to hear that?" Hopefully she'll finally stop.

posted: 07/07/06 at 7:15 AM

Poetman [more]

To keep teasing you about something like that is extremely mean-spirited and hurtful.

You can't help your lesser hair status, it's part of who you are. She knew that when she married you and to flaunt her excessive hair in front of you is just plain cruel and uncalled for.

If she's not stopping, even knowing how much it's hurting you, I suggest you two get in and see a counselor...and if that doesn't get it into her head, you may want to consider moving on. People who tease and belittle like to feel their power and they don't often change.

Hang in there.

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Rodger Swan 12/19/1986-1/26/2010 Gone too soon, remembered forever. R.I.P my friend.

You have everything that I have to give; it is the only way that Love truly exists. You and I are each One, and we are both One~E

I cannot be accurately judged by the meat and bone wrapped around me - its features were not my choice.~E

I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E

posted: 07/07/06 at 8:29 AM

boballen [more]

Thank you all so much. I did talk to her about it and she apologized, she said she is completely happy that I do not have alot of body hair and that I am smaller than her and that was one of the things that attracted her to me. She said she loves me and that it turns her on that she is bigger than me and hairier than me, but I already am self conscious about my size (have been all of my life). She gets hit on all the time by men but turns them down and is completely faithful to me and says that she loves me for me. She says she was looking for someone smaller and less hairy than her and it is a turn on for her, but it is hard for me to deal with when my friends tease me and say, "wow your wife is hot, but why did she stop waxing her arms and legs". When they say that it is kind of embarrassing.

say what? posted: 07/07/06 at 9:18 AM

sassylass38 [more]

quote:Originally posted by boballen
Thank you all so much. I did talk to her about it and she apologized, she said she is completely happy that I do not have alot of body hair and that I am smaller than her and that was one of the things that attracted her to me. She said she loves me and that it turns her on that she is bigger than me and hairier than me, but I already am self conscious about my size (have been all of my life). She gets hit on all the time by men but turns them down and is completely faithful to me and says that she loves me for me. She says she was looking for someone smaller and less hairy than her and it is a turn on for her, but it is hard for me to deal with when my friends tease me and say, "wow your wife is hot, but why did she stop waxing her arms and legs". When they say that it is kind of embarrassing.

Maybe it's just me but I find it sort of strange that a large woman would purposely seek out and be attracted to someone much smaller - and to actually say they're "turned on" by being bigger and hairier. That seems freaky to me.

Why do people make the comment about her not waxing her arms and legs - you mean she doesn't shave her legs, lets the hair grow on them?

Are you 2 into the whole domination/submission thing - where she likes to dominate you?

posted: 07/07/06 at 9:41 AM

Poetman [more]

Or perhaps she's transgender...her spirit is male, but in a female body...

So, her letting the hair grow and being attracted to the smaller, less-hairy you is the male spirit coming out a bit..just a thought.

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Rodger Swan 12/19/1986-1/26/2010 Gone too soon, remembered forever. R.I.P my friend.

You have everything that I have to give; it is the only way that Love truly exists. You and I are each One, and we are both One~E

I cannot be accurately judged by the meat and bone wrapped around me - its features were not my choice.~E

I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E

posted: 07/07/06 at 10:52 AM

boballen [more]

No, we are not into the domination/submission thing, in fact our sex life is very normal. I would kind of go with theory 2 about a male spirit in a female body, however she is not attracted to females. The way she explained it, some men are turned on by fat women or petite women and she is turned on by the fact that I am smaller than her. I guess part of this is my fault because what I initialy liked about her was her athleticism, in fact I used to think before we started dating, "wow she kicks a**", but I guess when she says things like that it brings out my insecurities because I was ridiculed all my life pretty much for only being 5'4" and being skinny. I was not aware that she was attracted to me because of my physically attributes. I was attracted to her because she is so hot. Maybe she is turned on by this and her teasing me turns her on or commenting on things like my size or lack of hair even though she says she likes it. I will have to ask her.

posted: 07/07/06 at 11:10 AM

sassylass38 [more]

But Bob, you didn't answer the question - why do the guys tease you about her not waxing her arms/legs -does she NOT wax/shave/remove the hair on her legs? Does she let itgrow? Why would they say that?

posted: 07/07/06 at 11:22 AM

Poetman [more]

I'm not attracted to females in general either~and I myself, am trans, as is my gf in reverse.

It is very specifically *her* and no other woman that gets me turned on~why? Can't say but to any and all other women, I might as well not have a sex drive cause it simply doesn't react.

I hope your wife is not turned on by teasing or being mean, that would really be bad...and if so, you need to find out where it's coming from. I'm sure she doesn't want you hurting. And you are certainly *not* at fault for admiring her athleticism~who wouldn't? People who are in good shape are attractive~no two ways of slicing it. I still stand by my opinion that your smaller stature and lack of hair (by comparison) are neither excuse nor reason for her teasing you and she needs to stop or in time, her marriage will suffer.

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Rodger Swan 12/19/1986-1/26/2010 Gone too soon, remembered forever. R.I.P my friend.

You have everything that I have to give; it is the only way that Love truly exists. You and I are each One, and we are both One~E

I cannot be accurately judged by the meat and bone wrapped around me - its features were not my choice.~E

I Love you. Love Me as I Love you, you are Me. you are not me; only here are we we, separate rather than Me, One.~E

posted: 07/07/06 at 11:25 AM

boballen [more]

She lets it grow, she quit waxing her arms and legs, I never realized how hairy she was either, I mean she had some black fuzz on her stomach and back, but that was it.

posted: 07/07/06 at 11:46 AM

sassylass38 [more]

Yikes - so she likes being hairy. Wow. Most women do anything they can to remove body hair. Don't you find it a huge turn off to be married to a woman who's intentionally hairy and therefore not very feminine?

So you mean she'll wear a dress or skirt and have hairy legs?

posted: 07/07/06 at 1:34 PM

boballen [more]

Yes she will wear a skirt and a bathing suit to the beach we live in Florida, believe it or not men have commented on it being sexy, but I think they like her body mostly. She gre up for 16 years in Brazil where she states that it is a very erotic thing. I went on a few Brazilian websites and she was right, they do not shave. She said in Brazil it is a sign of a womans sexuality and how sexual she is, but the hair thing is not what bothers me. Just being smaller and her having more, I don't know manly attributes (being 7 inches taller and weighing 65 pounds more than me, being stronger, having more hair), she is very athletic and has 8 percent body fat from training her whole life, that makes me feel less of a man. I never really put alot of thought into it other than being self conscious about my size all my life until she started bringing it up.

posted: 07/07/06 at 2:51 PM

sassylass38 [more]

Bob,

I'm confused here. In your original post you said you're 5'3" and that your wife is 5'11". Then in a subsequent response of yours, you said you're 5'4". Now in your most recent response, you mentioned that your wife is 7 inches taller than you (if she's 5'11", that would make you 5'2"). Hmmm. So which is it? No offense but your post seems odd to me - are you sure this is all true and you're not making up this story about being a tiny little guy who's married to a larger hairy women, just for a laugh? I've never heard that Brazilian women feel that female body hair is a sign of sexuality - and I find it very odd that men allegedly find your wife so sexy, despite the fact that she walks around with leg hair, etc. You indicated that you live in Florida. I have a very hard time believing that American men would be attracted to a hairy big woman - that just doesn't sound plausible to me at all.

posted: 07/08/06 at 8:16 AM

boballen [more]

No, I am not making it up and if I were 5'2" she would be 9 inches taller. It is common in Brazil for women not to shave because I have seen them unshaven on Brazilian websites. Why would this be funny to anyone anyways. My wife is not some big hairy goon, she is in phenomenal shape and has abs and has 8% body fat. Men do consider her hot.

posted: 07/08/06 at 9:38 AM

banarabbyt1 [more]

Meh, its YOUR wife- who cares what other people think? You guys are happy, let them talk all they want- in the end, you have the great wife.

Next time they say anything say "I like my wife that way, so you can shut up now.

"

Thats totally rude, its none of their busines if your wife shaves or not, heck I hate shaving and don't shave my legs hardly ever and my husband says he does not care- neither should you- its just freaking hair.

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हिंसक

सभ्य समाज में महिलाएं अबला, बेचारी और सताई नारी के तमगों से नवाजी जाती रही हैं. लेकिन बदलती फिजा में नकाब के पीछे छिपा उन का हिंसक और क्रूर चेहरा अब दुनिया के सामने उजागर होता दिख रहा है. उन के हिंसक होने के पीछे की मानसिकता को परत दर परत खोल रही हैं रेखा व्यास.
घरेलू सहायिका राखी की हत्या हो, एअरहोस्टैस द्वारा घरेलू मेड को बंदी बनाना हो या मां की हत्यारिन रूबी को उम्रकैद, ये सभी स्थितियां समाज को सन्न कर देने वाली हैं.
महिलाओं के इन रूपों पर सभी को यकीन नहीं होता. एक नन्हे से भू्रण को देह में रख उसे अपने खूनपसीने से सींच कर दुनिया की सब से बड़ी पीड़ा प्रसववेदना को जीवन में एक बार नहीं, कई बार सह कर जो स्त्री पूरी सृष्टि का संचालन कर रही है, आज उसे क्या हो गया है? आज उस की सृजनात्मक दुनिया इतनी विद्रूप व विध्वंसक कैसे हो गई है?
नारी के हिंसक रूप ने उस के अंतरिक्ष की ऊंचाई तक नापे गए सफलता के कदमों को बौना कर दिया है. हिंसा के हर रूप को आजमाती हुई वह अपनों को ही नहीं सब को शर्मसार कर रही है. उस के हिंसक रूप पर जल्दी से यकीन नहीं होता पर यथार्थ कौन नकार सकता है. घर, दफ्तर, बाजार, दीनदुनिया, फिल्में यानी हर जगह हिंसक स्त्री प्रकट होती जा रही है.
‘सात खून माफ’ नामक हिंदी फिल्म हो या हौलीवुड फिल्म ‘प्रोवोक्ड’, इन में पति की हत्यारिन महिलाओं को भी सहानुभूति के नजरिए से दिखाया गया है. उन के अपराध को सहज, प्राकृतिक या सुनियोजित अपराध नहीं माना गया. इसी प्रकार राजीव गांधी की हत्या में शामिल नलिनी मुरुगन की फांसी को आजीवन कारावास में तबदील किया गया तो इस पर बावेला नहीं मचा. इस तरह की हमारे आसपास और दुनियाभर में हजारों घटनाएं मिलेंगी जिन में महिलाओं को अपराध के बावजूद ‘बेचारी’ समझा गया या उन के पीछे पुरुषों या परिस्थितियों का हाथ समझा गया.
आमतौर पर शांत छवि
आमतौर पर महिलाओं की छवि शांत, धैर्यमयी, सहिष्णु, सहनशील और दयालु की है. इसीलिए उन का उग्र, आक्रामक तथा हिंसक रूप सहज स्वीकार्य नहीं. लोग अकसर इस का संबंध जैनेटिक मानते हैं. पुरुष में जहां यह बात आम मानी गई है वहीं महिला में विपरीत या अपवादस्वरूप ही ऐसा माना, स्वीकारा जाता है. उन्हें तन से ही नहीं, मन से भी लचीला और कोमल माना जाता है. उस के इसी रूप को ध्यान में रख कर आएदिन उस के पक्ष में कानून बन रहे हैं.
बदल रही हैं स्थितियां
पहले स्त्रियां कम पढ़ीलिखी थीं. उन पर ज्यादा बच्चे पैदा करने व लालनपालन करने का इतना जिम्मा और बोझ होता था कि कब उम्र बीत गई, पता ही नहीं चलता था. 40-50 साल की उम्र में ही वे नानीदादी बनी अपने को बड़ाबूढ़ा अनुभव करती थीं. अब औसत उम्र बढ़ने के साथ ही कम बच्चे, अच्छी शिक्षा व रहनसहन, स्वतंत्रता और बढ़ते अधिकारों ने उस की स्थिति बदल दी है. स्वतंत्रता ने उसे स्वच्छंद, उग्र व आक्रामक बना दिया है. आज उस के पास समझ, समय, साधन, संसाधन, अधिकार, जागरूकता आदि सबकुछ है. इन सब ने उसे सकारात्मक के साथसाथ नकारात्मक भी खूब बनाया है. आज आई क्यू के साथ ई क्यू यानी इमोशनल क्वोशंट पर भी बराबर जोर देने की जरूरत है.
गलत रोल मौडल
प्रकृति विज्ञानी डा. संसार चंद्र का कहना है कि अरसे से घर, परिवार व समाज को पुरुष लीड करते रहे. पुरुष प्रधानता के कारण स्त्रियों ने समझ लिया है कि पुरुष जैसे गुणों (असल में दुर्गुणों) के बिना वे राजकाज नहीं चला सकतीं. इस सफलता के लिए तेजतर्रार, उग्र, आक्रामक होना ही होगा इसलिए न चाहते हुए भी घरपरिवार, दफ्तर, सरकार सब जगह महिलाएं उग्र, आक्रामक, हिंसक होती जा रही हैं. फिर हमारे तथाकथित धार्मिक आदर्श भी उसे सिखाते हैं, जैसे ‘भय बिन प्रीत न होय गुसाईं.’ वह अपनी सफलता के लिए नकारात्मक स्थितियों का सहारा लेती है और फिर वैसी ही होती चली जाती है.
फेवर करते कानून
एडवोकेट अश्विनी शर्मा कहते हैं, ‘‘स्त्रियों पर अत्याचार आसानी से संभव होने के कारण उन के हक में कई कानून बनते हैं. इन कानूनों का महिलाएं मिसयूज करती हैं. इस से सामाजिक व पारिवारिक रूप से स्त्रियों का हिंसक रूप बढ़ता जा रहा है. पहले तलाक का बहुत ठोस कारण होता था. दहेज कानून लचीले हुए तो महिलाएं आसानी से इस का सहारा लेने लगीं. अपने हिंसक व आक्रामक व्यवहार को वे ससुरालियों पर थोपने लगीं. जीवन के प्रति उन का नजरिया बदला है. वे बदला प्रतिकार और सबक सिखाने के लिए कानून का सहारा लेती हैं.
‘‘हमारे पास इस तरह की महिलाएं आती हैं. वे चाहती हैं कि हम केस को लंबा खींचें ताकि उन के पति व घर वालों को अच्छा सबक मिले. हम उन्हें सचाई और अपने प्रोफैशनल एथिक्स से समझाते हैं तो कुछ मान जाती हैं जबकि कुछ हमें उपदेशक या गलत समझ लेती हैं.’’
एक और वकील वत्सल कुमार भी ‘वीमन फेवरिंग’ कानून को बढ़ती हिंसा का काफी हद तक जिम्मेदार मानते हैं. वे कानून को समझ कर ‘करे कोई भरे कोई’ वाली स्थिति सीख गई हैं. ऐसा नहीं है कि यह बात कोई जानतासमझता नहीं, धीरेधीरे लोग पुरुष उत्पीड़न व जरूरतमंद महिलाओं को लाभ न मिलने की स्थिति को काफी हद तक जाननेसमझने लगे हैं. हमारे देश के उदार और महिला लाभ वाले कानूनों का इसी तरह महिलाएं फायदा उठाती रहीं तो यह लाभ बंद किया जा सकता है. जिस से असली दुखी, उत्पीडि़त महिलाओं को उस का लाभ नहीं मिल पाएगा. हिंसक होने से स्त्री समाज को घाटा ज्यादा है.
कानून कितना ही लचीला और महिला फेवरिंग हो, फिर भी हिंसक महिलाओं को उस की कीमत चुकानी ही पड़ती है. सजा थोड़ी कम भी हो तो क्या सजा तो सजा ही है. शारदा जैन ने आत्माराम मर्डर केस में उम्रकैद की सजा पाई जबकि मुंबई में बच्चों की हत्यारिन कई महिलाएं फांसी के इंतजार में हैं. इन्हें महिला होने का लाभ भी मिले तो क्या, सामाजिक छवि में सुधार, सम्मानजनक जीवन व संतोष तो नहीं ही मिलता. गलत तो गलत ही होता है.
मनोवेत्ता व मनोचिकित्सक डा. नीलेश तिवारी कहते हैं, ‘‘महिलाएं भले ही हिंसक होती जा रही हैं पर ज्यों ही उन का क्रोध, आवेग, आक्रामकता शांत होती है वे पछतावे, प्रायश्चित्त व अवसाद की ज्यादा शिकार हो जाती हैं. फिर हिंसक पुरुष जितनी सहजता से सामाजिक जीवन में स्वीकार लिए जाते हैं उतनी सहजता से स्त्री नहीं स्वीकारी जाती. सामाजिक जीवन से दूर हो जाना, सामाजिक बहिष्कार और ऐसी ही पीड़ाएं एक हिंसक स्त्री को ज्यादा भोगनी पड़ती हैं.
‘‘स्त्री वर्ग में सुधार के बावजूद लोग उसे गलत समझते हैं. एक बार का लगा ठप्पा हटाने में अच्छी छवि भी काम नहीं आती. प्रेम में धोखा खाई हुई एक लड़की ने हाल में ही उस प्रेमी पर तेजाब फेंक दिया. किसी भी तरह इस हरकत को जस्टिफाई नहीं किया जा सकता.’’
क्रूरता के भयावह रूप
28 मार्च, 2012 : मेरठ में एक महिला ने वहशीपन की सारी हदें पार करते हुए अपने पति का गला रेत कर उस की हत्या कर दी और शव को घर के बाथरूम में गड्ढा खोद कर दफना दिया.
20 फरवरी, 2013 : इंदौर में खजराना इलाके की नादिरशाह कालोनी में एक औरत ने अपने पति को गोली मार दी. पति को गोली मारने के बाद महिला ने तड़पते हुए पति और खुद को एक कमरे में बंद कर लिया था.
जुलाई, 2013 : प्रेम प्रसंग के चलते एक पत्नी ने पति को मार कर जमीन में दफना दिया. बवाना क्राइम ब्रांच पुलिस ने इस सनसनीखेज हत्याकांड का पर्दाफाश किया.
1 अक्तूबर, 2013 : दिल्ली के वसंतकुंज में मकान मालकिन ने एक नौकरानी को झाड़ू और डंडों से पीटा और प्रैस से जला भी दिया. मकानमालकिन पर नौकरानी को कुत्ते से कटवाने का भी आरोप है.
5 नवंबर, 2013 : उत्तर प्रदेश के बसपा सांसद धनंजय सिंह की पत्नी जागृति सिंह को क्रूरता की हद पार करते हुए अपनी 35 वर्षीय नौकरानी की हत्या के आरोप में गिरफ्तार किया गया. जागृति के घरेलू सहायकसहायिकाओं पर जुल्मों की दास्तां सामने आ चुकी है.
उपरोक्त घटनाएं महिलाओं के बदलते आक्रामक रूप का पर्दाफाश करती हैं.
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Beared Lady

From the very first time Sangeeta walked through the front door at the firm, everyone took notice. She was tall, with long, lustrous, auburn hair. She had the face of a Punjabi princess and a long, slender body to match. She strode in the door wearing a navy blue pinstriped suit, a high starched collar on her dress shirt and wing-tipped, stiletto heels that were so glossy, they picked up blinding glints of sunlight as she walked. Her make-up was sultry but subtle and she wore no jewelry save for small, gold earrings and matching cufflinks.

Day in and day out, she was always at the height of glamour and fashion, though she always had a very masculine bent to the way she dressed, as if to say, "yes, I'm beautiful, but I'm also good, so pay attention." We worked well together, but I was beyond smitten. I never misbehaved or made any overtures, however, because I was always acutely aware that she was out of my league. Still, I delighted in every time I made her laugh or impressed her with an observation. We were both department heads, but I cared far more about impressing her than I did our bosses.

One day, however, things began to change. I had been out of town for a month, setting up a new office in Hong Kong. Upon my return, I knocked on her door to discuss the progress of her counterpart at that office. It was winter, and she was wearing gray, flannel trousers, a brown, cashmere v-neck with a starched, blue shirt that had white cuffs and collar. Under the collar, she had a red, silk tie in a double Windsor, and she completed the look with a wide-lapelled double-breasted jacket to match her trousers.

After exchanging pleasantries and a handshake, we sat at opposite sides of her desk and got down to business. It was then that I noticed a layer of pervasive, dark fuzz all over her face. It was more densely collected and longer on her cheeks and upper lip, but it caught the light rather dramatically on her chin. Then I noticed that in spite of the familiar length and volume of her hair, I could see through to her scalp. It was noticeably thinner at the top.

I put it out of my mind and continued the meeting, but that night, I couldn't stop thinking about it.

Over the course of the next month, Sangeeta’s hair got thinner and her face got furrier until one Monday morning when her face was suddenly bare, and her hair was conspicuously darker and far fuller.

Later that day, I rounded a corner in the hall and caught Sangeeta studying her chin and upper lip in her compact. Several days later, seated beside her at a meeting, late in the day, I noticed that she had five o'clock shadow. It was then that my suspicion was confirmed. She had been shaving her face.

At the end of the meeting, the others left while I decided it was time I took a shot. Suddenly, I felt she was not only attainable, but whether interested or not, she may appreciate the idea that someone would want her. I put my hand on her shoulder.

"Sangeeta."

"Yes?"

Suddenly, as her piercing eyes locked with mine, I lost my nerve.

"Oh, I... I just wanted to see if you had an opening tomorrow to discuss the quarterly numbers."

She narrowed her eyes.

"Yes. The scheduled appointment we already have at ten."

"Right. That's right."

It was then that she stood up but her hair didn't all go with her. In a flash, I picked it up, replacing it on top of her head before anyone else had seen. She looked at me, petrified. She said nothing and scrambled to collect her papers, disappearing without a word.

Realizing how upset she may have been, I followed her to her office. "Sangeeta?"

"Come in."

"Sangeeta, I..."

"I'm okay. Please, just..."

"No. Sangeeta. Of course you're alright. I didn't really want to ask you about tomorrow. I wanted to ask you out to dinner."

"Why would you tell me that now?"

"Because I'm asking you now."

"After what you just saw?"

"Sangeeta. We work in very close quarters. I already knew. So? Would you do me the honor?"

"Uh... Sure. I mean, yes, of course."

"How's Friday at eight?"

Her look of astonishment melted away and she curled her lips into a smile.

The rest of the week dragged on. We never mentioned our plans, but I did notice her responses to my jokes were a bit more boisterous and Sangeeta had taken up the practice of touching my elbow from time to time.

When Friday rolled around, Sangeeta was wearing a pair of brown, wool-cashmere trousers, a striped, green button-down with a silk ascot, and a dark green, tweed jacket. By five o'clock, her facial hair had begun to peek out and I caught her itching her hair piece.

"What kind of place are we going to? What should I wear?" she asked.

"Dark. Candle lit. Quiet, but laid back. I was kind of hoping you'd just come as you are."

"Oh. Well, sure."

"In fact, Sangeeta, I kind of figured that you look forward to taking that off at the end of every day."

She looked embarrassed.

"No. I mean, I picked a place I thought you would feel comfortable without your wig. You don't even have to shave. Not that it needs to be dark. I'll take you anywhere."

"What? How did you?" She seemed angry at first, then shifted, perplexed. "Do you mean that?"

"Absolutely, Sangeeta. I don't want to embarrass you, but you are an incredibly beautiful woman."

"Well, I was..." "You are."

It was seven fifty when I arrived at Sangeeta's building. I buzzed her unit and she called down. Minutes later, the door opened and I was floored. Suddenly it occurred to me that I didn't look at her head when the wig came off. Sangeeta's hair had been cut to an even length of a few inches all over. The sparse top was combed forward and her pink scalp showed through. As I had suggested, she spared her face another shaving, and she replaced her jacket with a soft sweater. She looked at me as if to ask for my approval.

"I'm not quite sure of all the rules of dating a coworker, but I think I can safely say that you look gorgeous tonight."

Her smile made my heart swell.

Dinner went well, but we were far too polite for a couple on a first date. During the meal, we only discussed business. But on the way back to her building, I decided to get honest. I put my jacket around her shoulders.

"So, what happened, darling?"

She looked me in the eyes, clearly gauging my sincerity. Then she looked down on the sidewalk as the cuffs of her pants danced around her wool socked ankles. She pulled my arm tighter with one hand and drew the other to her stubbly chin.

"They don't know, exactly. They thought it was hormonal, but all of my hormone levels are normal. The theory is that certain receptors in my body are simply hyper-sensitive to normal levels of hormones. Do you really want to know?"

"Absolutely. I want to know. Is this permanent?"

"The truth is, it will probably only get worse. I'll get hairier most places, and I'll just get balder and balder on my head."

"And you want to just keep wearing wigs and shaving?" "What choice do I have?"

I stopped and pulled her close, running my hands over her head and around to the velvety stubble along her jaw-line.

"You could embrace it. You could just be the uniquely extraordinary person you were born to be."

She was briefly pulled into me, about to allow me a kiss when she pushed away, leaving me to catch up.

"A freak show."

"No. A beautiful woman with qualities few other women possess."

She fell quiet, but permitted me to hold her head against my chest as we walked. Eventually, we came to a barbershop that was open late. She stopped and looked in the door. As suddenly as she stopped, she resumed a brisk pace.

"So you're telling me that if I showed up tomorrow with a beard and a bald spot, you not only wouldn't skip a step, you'd continue to take me out, romantically?"

I pulled her close again, and kissed her.

"Sangeeta, from the day I met you, I have dreamed of being this close. I would consider myself the luckiest man alive if you would continue to date me while you explore this situation."

After another kiss, I took her home and we shared another beautiful moment.

The next day, I got to work early, eagerly anticipating Sangeeta's arrival. Right on time, she strolled into the office, wearing her hair piece, a pair of wool, charcoal trousers, a plaid, silk, sport coat and a white shirt with a red and black stiped tie and a pair of tasseled loafers. What impressed me, though, was that she hadn't shaved. It clearly impressed the whole office as hushed chatter swept throughout.

For the first part of the day, Sangeeta seemed almost to forget the previous night. Then, around lunch time, she knocked on my door, opened her blazer, plunged her hands into her pants pockets and lifted her pants to her waist.

"Do you stand by everything you said last night?" "Of course."

"Alright. Follow me."

Twenty minutes later, after an almost silent walk, studying Sangeeta's growing beard in the sunlight, we stepped up to and into the barbershop from the previous night.

"What are you planning to do here?" I asked with a flirtatious grin. She responded in kind, saying only, "you'll see."

Almost as soon as she crossed the doormat, Sangeeta made a point of ignoring me, as though she were pretending we were strangers. As she passed the lone, female barber, they exchanged nods and we sat. When I sat beside her, Sangeeta stood up, ceremoniously removed her sport jacket and sat back down, several seats away, hanging the jacket over the back of the next seat. She picked up a magazine, and I followed suit.

As I pretended to peruse an old New Yorker, I looked up at the barber. She put the finishing touches on an older man's haircut. She was younger than us by a few years, maybe 26. She was hip, wearing tight black jeans and an old white t-shirt. Its collar had

been stretched out so that as she shifted her shoulders, it almost drifted off, and occasionally revealed much of her cleavage. Her hair was long and pulled into a ponytail, but a fringe of feathered hair wrapped from cheek to cheek.

When she finished the older gentleman, she had a short, bubbly, exchange with him as he handed her a twenty dollar bill. After accompanying him to the door, she turned to me.

"So, what can I do ya for, handsome?"

"Please. I believe she was ahead of me," I returned, trying to play along with Sangeeta's charade.

"Oh, please forgive me. Sandy, what do you say you hop right up here? What will we do today?"

Sangeeta slid her wig off and, strangely, onto the floor as she stood. Her hair laid flat to her scalp except where it poked awkwardly out over her ears and the back of her collar. As she stood before the barber's chair, she loosened her tie, opened her collar, and lifted her trousers to sit down. As she crossed her legs, I got a glimpse of long, dense fur above her black socks.

"Shorter on the sides. Long enough to part on top." "And the, uh..?"

Sangeeta leaned in to whisper into the barber's ear. Then she turned to me, smiled and winked as the barber walked over to me.

"I'm sorry, sir. You'll have to leave. You're making the lady uncomfortable. I felt cheated, but I understood. She set me up. Now she wants to build up anticipation and surprise me. On my way back to the office, I received a text message from Sangeeta that read:

"My place. 9 o'clock. Bring a tooth brush and a change of clothes."

When I got to her place, I was fresh out of the shower at the gym, dressed to go out, with my gym bag full of work clothes and toiletries. She buzzed me in.

Out of the elevator, I came to her door, which was cracked open. Inside, it was dark, but I could see a candle lit through a door at the end of the hall. I set my bag down and walked toward it.

"Sangeeta?"

Her voice returned from inside the door, "keep coming, darling. Take a seat at the foot of the bed."

I entered. In the light of the single candle, I found the end of the bed and sat. "What's with all the..."

"Shhh. Just be patient," she whispered from the shadows.

With her back to me, she stepped in front of the candle and it went out. The room went totally dark. Seconds later, she picked up my hands and placed them over her waist. She was fully clothed in the thick, soft fabric of one of her suits. I slid my hands down to her tight, round butt as she leaned in to kiss me. First, on my cheek, then my lips, then again on my lips only to part her own, softly biting my lower lip. With each kiss, I felt a soft, velvety mustache brush over and press against my skin. It felt different, though. It felt like it had all been trimmed neatly just over her lip.

She rubbed her cheek against mine, revealing that it was bare. It was so bare that I never would have known it had ever been bearded. I ran my right hand up, over the back of her suit to her neck. It was also bare, up to the base of her skull, where it tapered gracefully from tiny, sharp bristles to soft, crushed velvet. My thumb jumped over her ear to where she had a short bristly sideburns that came to her earlobe. It wasn't tapered or pointed like most women wear them. It was blunt. Before I could do any more exploring, she pulled away and flipped a switch, lifting the veil of darkness.

As she walked forward, I saw that her hair was parted on top in a very conservative, men's haircut. It was clippered short on the sides and in back. On top, due to the thinning, I could see her scalp receding to the back under the part, but the part did disguise the full extent of her hair loss more than her longer hair. The widow's peaks above her temples went dramatically far back, but it was still flattering combined with her beautiful features.

What I had not noticed until just then was that her hair was turning a silvery gray. The sides had become almost uniformly silver and the sparse top showed strands here and there. Her mustache, which was all that remained of her beard, was still very dark brown with red highlights here and there. It was thicker than I had remembered and trimmed to just over her lip in a precise line, extending from just past each corner of her mouth. It was strange, but somehow extraordinarily arousing.

She was suited from head to toe in a wooly tweed. She wore a broad tie beneath a high vest, wrapped within a wide-lapelled, double-breasted jacket tailored to wrap tightly over her breasts and around her tiny waist over pleated, cuffed, straight-legged trousers. She kicked off a pair of brown wingtips, revealing brown, red and tan argyle socks.

"Now, get to work. You take the rest off," she commanded.

I stood up and walked up to her. I removed my own clothes and pulled her close, kissing her as I opened her jacket. I then got on my knees.

I opened her belt and trousers. I slid her pants down. Her legs were carpeted all the way into her panties. I wrapped my hands around her ankles and ran them all the way back up, making the long, dark hairs stand up. I lowered her panties, which had bulged from the crotch. Once down, an eight inch beard clung, extending up over her stomach. I parted the beard to reveal her lips and pressed my own against them before standing.

I took her by the necktie, pulling it just an inch or so from the vest, and again, pressed my lips against hers. I plunged deep into her mouth with my tongue as I relished the sensation of her soft, fine, mustache. In one quick motion, I threw her toward the bed and bent her over the edge. I forced her legs apart and plunged my hand into her furry crotch. As she arched her head back, I could see the bare circle at the top of her head. Oddly, it only turned me on more, and I pulled her close as I plunged my penis inside her.

When I woke, she was sprawled out naked. I saw her in all her splendor for the first time, and I found that her chest and back were even hairier than mine. I ran my fingertips over the alien terrain, waking her up. We kissed and I lifted my fingers to her mustache, combing it against the grain. To my surprise, no stubble had emerged over the night where her beard had been.

"Why is your face still so smooth?" I asked.

She rubbed her cheek and jaw, and flattened her mustache back down.

"The barber did it with a straight razor. I don't know why, but it usually stays smooth for a couple days after that."

She kissed me again, and then took me by the hand into the bathroom.

"Speaking of which, I have a job for you." She handed me a safety razor and a can of shaving cream. "I need you to shave off my mustache."

"What? Why? I kind of like it."

"Honey, I'm a balding woman. That's unique enough. I don't need to be the bearded, bald woman."

So we hopped in the shower, and I did as she asked.

For several months, we alternated nights at each other's apartments. I tended to her beard, and she went to the barbershop once a month for a trim and a shave. Gradually, she lost more and more hair on her head. I found that she wasn't so much balding entirely as the hair that was growing in as thicker hairs fell out just wasn't maturing. It was thin, sparse, and translucent. The rest of her hair became progressively more silver, but so far as I

could tell, her beard was still dark, though I was tasked with shaving it morning and night.

Our six month anniversary came two days after I returned from a month long trip overseas. When I got to her apartment, no one was home. I made myself comfortable on the couch and set out to catch up on some shows on the DVR.

Somehow, Sangeeta snuck in without a sound, and she startled me, wrapping her arms around my shoulders from behind. I pulled her over the back of the couch and into my lap.

To my surprise, she had changed her hair and begun to grow her beard. I plunged my lips into hers for some time, and then I sat back to take her in. Her hair had been reduced on the sides and back to a bare shaved scalp. From there, her hair was precisely flush with the scalp and seemingly perfectly flat on top. At the very peak of her head, it was completely bare. Her hairline had retreated further up, but it only served to highlight her extraordinarily beautiful features. She had apparently colored her hair, restoring it to a reddish brown.

Her face was similarly precisely trimmed. Below her jaw-line, it was shaved smooth, and the border her jaw constituted was as flat as the top of her head. From there up her cheeks, chin and mustache were all one length, creating a lustrous, velvety texture.

"Do you like it?" she asked, with a spritely confidence. "I do."

Over the next several months, Sangeeta maintained her haircut and grew out her beard. With each week, her cheeks, chin and upper lip got fuller while she had her barber maintain a precise plane at her jaw-line and just over her upper lip. Every night and every morning, she brushed and combed it as though it were the long mane she once had on her head.

All the while, the hair on top of her head became less and less apparent. She still maintained the precise flattop with the insubstantial fuzz that lined her scalp, and she became even more determined to keep it dark.

Saturday, 9 August 2014

Bollywood actress look like wearing Mustache

Tollywood Actress looks masculine with her big nose and shaven lips like she got mustache.